翩然飘飞的思绪

    雪 一片一片一片一片

    在天空静静缤纷

      很喜欢听王力宏和范晓萱的《雪人》，很浪漫的感觉，充满期待却也隐藏着伤感，也许就是我内心最真实的感受。一切都很好，虽然不能事事如意，可是还是很感激，世界上每一天都会发生那么多变故，能够平安快乐地度过每一天都是值得我们开心的。所以，每天都要带着微笑入睡，烦心的事请把它清理出你的思绪，只有好好休息，拥有优质的睡眠，才能在每个清晨又精神百倍地开始新的奋斗征程。

      感觉孤寂是因为自己用双手蒙住了耳朵，只要你认真的看一下周围，就会发现，有那么多炽热的目光在关注你。没有光鲜华丽的伟大成就又何妨，不要总是强迫自己只顾马不停蹄地赶路，也许，放慢脚步时，你会发现，原来路旁也有芬芳如许，何必只想在终点处领略美好的风光呢。

      心灵像一片幽蓝的湖泊，泛着浅浅的清波，岸边是青青的垂柳，随风摇曳，摆弄出的是妩媚的风情。心情像满天翻飞的柳絮，飘飘荡荡的洒进整个世界，轻盈的旋转进心里，掺进柔柔的感动，心有暖的感觉，很温馨！就像是春天的阳光照耀，让人很舒服的温暖，惬意；就像是久违的老朋友，给了你一个让人怀念的拥抱，让你心底燃起热热的火焰，很是想念。那是一种感觉，是恬淡的喜欢，却不是爱，有淡淡的思念，淡淡的牵挂，淡淡的眷恋，淡淡的习惯；不会伤心，不会痛苦，不会伤害；但依旧能刻骨铭心。知足于这样的感觉，淡淡的喜欢着，维持着。

      知道这是什么样的感觉吗?

      我不知道喜欢和爱的区别。在这个距离间,可以远远的望着,可以幻想着自己想和那个人实现的愿望,可以静静的想念,可以保护自己。

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