open my heart to U.

 

原来这个世界真的很大。很大很大。望不到边际。

问问自己。你需要多少时间去走遍中国。走遍世界。

世界偌大无比。狭小的只是人们的心罢了。

30年．50年．我不知道自己能不能走遍半个中国。

或许现在这仍然是个未知数。那么这就同样也是希望。

10年．我想改变自己。改变现状。

30年．我想踏遍山水，游遍全国。

有些东西你永远都改变不了，那么就不要再去尝试。

风景无处不在。青春却渐渐逝去。所以，要舍得放弃那些。

那么不属于我的青春的青春。那些永远都没有答案的问号。

 

 

青春的路上。不止是爱情才能充实你的生活。

知识。阅历。思想。亲情。友情。健康。活力。

都是无比巨大的财富。况且这些财富都是有期限的。

有截止日期。百分之80的知识都是我们在大学里汲取的。

而三分之一的年岁注定了我们有时间，有精力去博览群书。

思想在不同的年龄阶段会改变。从单纯到复杂，这是一个适应社会的进化过程。

亲情在一年一年地愈演愈烈，可总有一天会走到尽头。

友情也不断地在升华，在稳定，在稀释，在消逝。

所以。要学会珍惜眼前，珍惜现在，

珍惜你现在看不到的幸福。因为若干年后，他们将弥足珍贵。

爱情，那些爱情。保质期只有金庸说的三个月。

我现在是全部相信了。至少在结婚前我要相信。

我要把这些付出。。转移。转移到另一个房间。

那就是。我的人生。这里永远有一把属于我的钥匙。

我永远不会被别人赶出去。

永远不会从一个房间沦落到另一个房间。

期限是100年。或许200年。我会有我的孩子。

孩子还会有她们的孩子。

我们要活的精彩。活得不同凡响。

 

 

丽江，玉龙雪山，长城，西双版纳，布达拉宫，

西安，拉萨，厦门，威海，黄山，桂林……

10年内我要一遍一遍去踏寻我的足迹，

找到那些远离家乡，不曾拥有的感觉。

我要把我的笑声，我的快乐散落在中国的角落。

散落在每一个美好的瞬间

散落在每一个小小的时光里。

深深地烙印在心中。

 

国外的城市那么等我十年后再来观望吧。

我希望我是依然憧憬。

依然信心满满。

依然精力充沛。

依然看见的都是幸福。

而非糜烂，灯红酒绿，潦倒腐败。

 

 

这就是生活。现在的生活。我一个人走走停停。

我一个人吃饭，看书，旅行，到处走走停停。

很好，那么让它继续保持吧！

5年，10年．这个时间应该不算太长。

若干年后，我会找到一种不同的人生。

其实人们现在远远不知道踏入社会，

并且活出自己是多么的艰难。

毕业不等同于知识的终结。

幸福的开始，

或许是奋斗的伊始，

又一轮知识的轮回。

所以学校里的这一点跌打滚跑，

现在根本算不上什么。

 

19周岁，一个无处安放的青春。

时而奋发，时而迷茫，时而混沌，时而坚强

时而倔强，时而狂野，时而快乐，时而任性，

时而懂事，时而温顺，时而积极，时而迷失。

 

 

 

早上去打耳洞了  那个怕啦 不过为了买来的耳环  还是执着的硬着头皮去打了 当那个叔叔拿枪的那一刻 我开始怀疑 有没有消毒过啊 会不会有血液传染病？ “没事”，于是我放心了一点，当枪放在我耳朵上时，我抱住了耳朵，生怕那一枪下去，我耳朵的肉会飞掉。 “你还打不打啊” “我打” 于是闭起眼睛，“崩”一枪，有点隐隐作痛。 还好，耳朵还在，纪念下。。。

这个暑假  真是无聊至极。

天气很热 不高兴出门变成了拒绝一切活动的理由。姐姐那也没有心情去，虽然好几次打电话来叫我去玩。本来想和丸子，傻妞，燕子四个人一起去乌镇的计划看来在这个暑假也即将破灭，随着奥运的到来，大家都窝在家里看比赛。今天21号了，9月4号去学校，转眼才刚放假，现在又开学了，时间真是飞逝啊。

一切都在运动，一切也都在沉淀，在炙热的仲夏及冰冷的冬日显现出情随事迁的轮回。

今年一直都对自己的年龄不太敏感，时不时地会忘记自己的年岁。20还是21？常常浮现于脑海，以为自己还年轻，还是刚满20的黄毛丫头，可青春不饶人啊。奔3了。不再是那个可以胡作非为的不懂事的任性小女孩生了。越发觉得肩上担子随着年岁的增长而不断加重砝码。可能这就是所谓责任感的锤炼与历练过程吧!

心情有些沉重与冰冷，在这个原本属于快乐的假期。

要是此时我还是那个什么都不懂得6岁儿童该多好啊。。

想去寻找一片寂静的天地，没有喧嚣，没有嘈杂，没有名利，没有恩怨，没有包袱，没有抱负，只有幸福。

错了，你必须接受现实，无论他是残酷抑或美好，这就是生活。活在现实的世界里，并且摒弃一切不该有的幻想，任凭生活的沉浮，活出铁打的小美。

好了，生活继续过，不同的是心情。

在日本，通常人们只要谈到第二次世界大战，就只讲日本是受害者，是军国主义分子把国家引向战争，是美国人轰炸了他们的城市。他们闭口不谈帝国军队给亚洲人民造成的灾难，也不谈入侵中国和袭击珍珠港。日本作为受害者，形象令人同情，然而却掩盖了其作为侵略者的另一面。

 

 

A  nations have a stake in building world peace and prosperity and should act in concert against those devasating destructions confronting us as well as showing filial respect to each other.

 

These days,I think I am really addicted to mylot. It is a great platform for people to exchange different thoughts and ideas as well as earn some extra money.

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I am really sleepy ,tired, ached this 2 or 3 days after finishing that gigantic moving project.oh,mgd,now,as for me,night is daytime and morning is night,I reversed  my bilogical clock,it is not good for us cause our organs need to stop working and sleep.

My thick five books have not been finished to one third,I really worry about that certificate.Hope I can pass easily…..GOOD LUCK……

Summer vacation passed really very quickly and silently,one month left.What should I do?The answer is to relax myself and visit some tourism attractions.That is great.

Summer practice is not underway cause these scroching days and my laziness.

That’s  all.

 

 

What is love?

Not every university student who plays in the game of love knows clearly what love is.I do really think love has its own rules and only by observing them can we obtain the happiness we are in the meaningful pursuit. And at the same time,love needs these rules because a game without rules is not a real game.We should be controlled by those rules.No difficulties,no fun.

Love is a kind of feeling.We may be enchanted by someone’s charming appearance at first sight, but in our relationship it is rarely to last long. It is known to all of us that we can’t judge a book by its cover. Gradually, we are only to find that the person is not our cup of tea. All shortcomings reveal,advantages conceal.

Love is a sort of admiration and worship. For example,if someone is excellent at dancing, singing, hosting, magic showing etc., first, we are totally immersed in the wonderful performance, then, we develop a sense of admiration and worship from the bottom of our hearts. We hope we can be as great as them. Sometimes, we will have visions of ourselves singing, dancing as fabulous as they do. In a certain sense,we love the image of the future ourselves.

Love means encouragement. If we want our love to be active,then it needs to be watered with encouragement. Encouragement brings confidence for us to pull through all kinds of difficulties. Encouragement is like a beacon in the dark land of love. Without it, we will lose the direction to discover the beauty of love.

Love is equal to possession. If we fall in love with someone,we all hope to take control of him. He should love me ,love my dog. If we think that way, we are totally wrong. Love will come to a standstill if we grip it too tightly. We will get as much as love if we bring wings to it and set it free.

Love is equated with sacrifice. We cut down the time and space of privacy in order to stay with someone else,sharing our experience. Love is that we never stop thinking of the people at the other end of the cellphone when we are having a heavy headache.

Love is responsibility. Even if there is no tender loving care between us, we have to create every moving action to please each other. Happiness which is not in their nature stands between us, but we have to sustain our love by creating happiness time and again. Hence love is somewhat called responsibility.

Love is memory,yes. An event can be short,  but the memory can last very long. Remembrance of the past imbues our present and future life with so many tide bits of good memory.

Love is to romanticize our life. Give love, then we’ll get love. The more we give, the more we’ll get.